Friday, 28 April 2017

NOT CLICK BAIT... MY mom had an affair with my best friens boyfriend AND...

MY MOTHER HAD AN AFFAIR WITH MY BEST FRIENDS BOYFRIEND AND...
There is gonna be a few parts to this story as its too long for one post...
it will go on to talking about Depression, domestic abuse and alchol use.

This is a post ive been debating writing but, for a long time i was so angry at her  and it affected me greatly.
I hated her for her actions cause the repercussions of her actions caused alot of heartache and trouble for me, it all started when i came back from living in London at age 17 i came home with a friend id met in london called Lisa, i took her to meet my local friends and i ended up getting back with my ex, and ffor a few weeks was great then we moved house and i was noticing my then bf was kinda gone and so was Lisa, i found them in our old house in bed together MY MOM had given them they keys she knew all about their affair.

But then my old friend from home,s boyfriend Nikki needed a place to stay as we had a big house i said yeah come rent a room in our house its ok, he fit in good always paid his rent and cause my dad is a fisherman he was at sea alot so Nikki when he was there was company for my mom, one night
  out with NIkki kenneth (my ex) and Lisa ii met a guy called Malcolm he stayed with me alot in our house cause he became good friends with Nikki  My mom and Nikki seemed to be getting a lil to close and i got worried and BIG MOUTH me pulled her on it, she denied it so did he so i let it go.
that weekend Malcolm and i went out for a night out the next day when we got home, My house was so quite my Mom sister and brother and nikki were gone and when i looked properly Nikkis car and all his stuff was gone too, then i noticed alot of my mother sister and brother's stuff was gone too... i was a mess crying going crazy it took a while but Malcolm eventually admitted he knew about the affair he knew they planned on running away together to the Isle Of Man where nikki is from.
i flipped out demanded to know where they were for the night he told me Galway, ok so i ssaid you ARE Agonna take me to them now, we drove 3 hours to Galway found them and my mom said Ohh no we are coming back we just needeed a break and as your dad whos never home is still in Holland its ok we will be back in a few days, i dont know why i trusted her but i did.
Malcolm and i booked into a B&B had pizza and drink slept next morning went to see them and YEAH you guessed it GONE.

I had to ring my dad barley 18yrs old a very shadded life and had to tell him YOUR WIFE MY MOTHER HAS RAN OFF WITH MY BEST FRIENDS BOYFRIEND as they been sleeping together for months.

OMG!!! My dad found her after 11 months i cant say how as people would get in trouble.
But she was on the Isle Of Man her and Nikki had split up and she was working doing private nursing for an old aldy and was dating the ladys son, my now stepdad.

But it turns out the reason she left in the first place was she was pregnant to Nikki she had tghe kid and gave it up for adoption with the Nugent care adoption society.
When i found out that well i was i dont know how to word it like  how can i.

After i found out all that Malcolm and i moved away from Donegal and lived in Galway ourselves and that is where everything else started to go wrong.
This i know all comes from what my mom done and ton this day she never once said sorry.

There is so much more to come please read all my posts related to this as im telling my life story in hopes to help someone else going through similar.


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